We hear it all the time. The only way to get writing done is to “put your butt in the chair.” Show up and just do it. Punch those keys, push that pen. It requires mental fortitude, commitment, a will to write. And a willingness to shut out everything else, endure the solitude.
It’s been a quiet fall. The sudden cancellation of our September travel plans left me at home with an empty slate. An abundance of empty mornings that screamed Writing Time. A lack of excuses. A productive stretch. A lot of time spent inside my own head.
Yet as I look back over the last few weeks, I can see the benefits I reap from my so-called solitary pursuit.
A chance meeting at a birding event with my husband, Rich, led to a coffee date with another nascent writer. She shared her passion for submitting stories to publications, reigniting my resolve to pursue more short pieces and send them out into the world. We swapped sources, favorite contests and writing goals all with a heavy dose of encouragement.
Through Lake Superior Writers, I have met local writers and now call many of them friends. Most are far more accomplished than I, yet generously share their knowledge, their experiences, their support. I can pour out my fears and inhibitions and they get it. They’ve been through it. Just recently, I spent several hours walking the woods of Lester Park and Hawk Ridge with two such women. With each crisp footstep and breath of Northwoods air, I relished the one-on-one connection, the common pursuit of elusive goals. No matter our skill levels.
My very first writing class was a week-long immersion in travel memoir, sequestered on beautiful Madeline Island. The twelve women in the class bonded by week’s end, sharing our writing aloud – hesitantly at first, then more eagerly as the week progressed. Last weekend, five of us gathered for dinner. We’ve managed a haphazard schedule of reunions since we first met four years ago. Of course, we all brought a piece to read. We still cheer one another on.
My own writing group met a few days ago. We’re only three in number, but we hold one another accountable. Critique each other’s works. One member has accurately dubbed it the Motivation Group. Once again, it’s the common bond of writing that unites us. Enriches our lives with this connection.
Today I just returned from the North Shore Readers and Writers Festival in Grand Marais. This bi-annual assembly of authors, instructors, book lovers and writers is the pinnacle of literary indulgence. For four days, I attended classes, listened to speakers and panels, and rubbed elbows with other writers all day long. Socializing over wine, meeting up for dinner, or just sitting in the same sessions widened my network of fellow writers and friends. But even better I could share my passion with like-minded folks. People who ground me. Reinforce my desire, and fully share the journey.
I came home exhausted but inspired. Ready to put my butt in the chair again. New ideas racing through my head. Suddenly, I don’t feel so alone anymore.
Have missed reading about your experiences. Glad to read this❤️👍
Wonderful Molly!! You were able to do it at home. Try it sometime in a cabin away! You will marvel.
I did a cabin retreat with a writing friend a couple of years ago – it was wonderful! See my post: https://superiorfootprints.org/2018/01/30/writing-retreat/ What a great reminder that I should do it again.
Wonderful experience. Catherine Watson?
Yes it was! Such a great teacher and mentor, as you well know!
Lovely reflections, Molly! Very inspirational.
I count you among my treasured walking and writing friends – I’d love to do it again when you can fit it in!
I don’t know if I told you that I moved to Wisconsin to live with my daughter. Now, no more cooking and no more driving! It’s working out well. I have been diagnosed with macular generation. It means that I get shots in my eyes every month. Eventually I may not need them every month according to my doc. Otherwise I am in good health. I always enjoy your Superior Footprints. Louise Martinson
I’m so glad to hear you have a good new living situation. I’m so pleased to hear that you still keep up with my adventures!
Great blog. “Breaking the Solitude” is a perfect title for the blog. It’s very inspiring to get together with other writers and be inspired by their talents.
Great blog! The title “Breaking Solitude” is perfect. Writing is a solitary pursuit, so I always enjoy getting together with writers and being inspired by their talents and encouragement!