We knew this day was coming. It just caught us off guard when this turned out to be the year. All of our children were spending Christmas with their “other” families – in-laws or almost-in-laws. Ours was to be an empty nest Christmas. Only two stockings to hang for Santa this year.
It’s all part of the natural progression. Kids grow up. They get married. They live their own lives. We are a close family, but we also know they need to spread their wings and make new traditions. So we set about doing the same.
We realized that adhering to the usual routine would be a guaranteed path to feeling lonely. So we decided to take ourselves away for Christmas. A destination Christmas, if you will. Making reservations at Lutsen Resort on the North Shore felt right, and we looked forward to spending the night in the old style lodge.
The original plan was to spend Christmas afternoon cross-country skiing. When the snow failed us, we changed it to hiking. But Mother Nature nixed that idea as well, when we found the trails too icy to navigate safely. It wasn’t too hard to accept extra time in front of the big fireplace in the lodge, and I soon found myself nodding off over my book then chatting with other guests by the Christmas tree.
The only reservation left for the Christmas buffet dinner was at 8:00pm – an outrageously late time to eat for this couple, but this adventure was all about change, so we accepted it graciously. With plenty of time to linger, we each drifted outside. Rich was eager to try out his new camera, and got some great night-time shots. I had a bonfire to myself on the beach with its mesmerizing flames and the sound of the Lake Superior waves lapping on the shore. It was easy to feel all the holiday tension slip away in the beauty of that scene. Topping off our evening with a festive Christmas dinner was a fitting finale.
Morning found me running along the lake shore and Rich birding. What else is new? But Rich came back all excited and soon dragged me up the Caribou Trail to find… SNOW! The farther inland we drove, the deeper the layers on the trees. Finding a road designated for foot travel only, we took a hike through the winter wonderland. It was silent and beautiful, yet another opportunity to drink in the peace and shed life’s cares. Another magical moment of our unconventional Christmas.
Within 15 minutes of reaching home, our children and grandchildren began to arrive. The house soon filled with the bustle, noise and activity of three generations. Our family Christmas celebration began. And our nest was no longer empty. It was worth the wait.